Animals

Just me and Dixie

I dropped my wife and kids off yesterday to go to a camp for the week. So it’s just me and Dixie this week.

Dixie, if you remember was a surprise to me and apparently only me.

Finding a Toothpick in a Haystack

Karen and I were standing on our patio in the front of our house. She brought Dixie (the puppy) out so I followed her. We had just finished eating and I had a toothpick in my mouth.

When I was done with the toothpick I flicked it into the yard next to us. Which is for sale and the yard is covered in straw. Karen asked why I flicked it in the yard because the puppy could get it.

I said “That’s why I flicked it way over there, so she wouldn’t find it in our yard and choke on it”. About 4 minutes later here comes Dixie with the toothpick in her mouth.

I busted out laughing wondering how in the world she found my toothpick in all that straw? Maybe my scent was on it, regardless I was very surprised.

Bowler is no longer with us.

I’m surprised by how sad I am.

Bowler was with us since last Friday and showed a huge amount of potential but a flaw began to show itself.

While he learned at a very fast rate and appeared to make himself at home within a few days we had a recurring problem, strangers.

We got him at the age of 6 months from Karen’s sister where he lived outside with a bunch of other dogs and he was the pup of the group.

We believe that something in the first 6 months set him up for social failure. He wouldn’t let strangers anywhere near him.

My daughter has a best friend who is at our house regularly but Bowler never accepted her. He growled at her several times this week even after she had petted him. But today he lunged at her and began barking at her. Not once but twice, I lost any trust I had in him. I explained this to Karen when she got home and she decided based on this and other incidents through the week to take him back where we got him from.

He never really misbehaved around just us but he had a unhealthy attachment to Karen and no strangers could come near him, that included my sister and niece, the neighbors and guys building the house next to us. I don’t believe that he would have hurt Allyson, Karen or myself but once the trust was gone it was hard to justify him being here. We read a lot of info related to aggressive dogs and this one area was the only one he fell in. We believe that he began to recognize our house and yard as his and started to become more confident and protect it from that which did not belong. But he was timid and aggressive towards those people we welcomed in our home. This unfortunately was not the kind of dog Karen wanted.

I’m really surprised at how attached I became to him in such a short period of time, he really was a lot of fun to play with and have around and he was smart. We’ve looked back at the entire week and read info about dogs and can honestly say that I don’t think we did anything wrong. But professional help was going to be required and that was something else Karen was not interested in.

This is really hard for me because once I claim something as mine I don’t like others to be responsible for it, which explains the black cat I have (don’t ask). So now a dog that I accepted responsibility for is at someone else’s house being taken care of by them. I know he won’t be mistreated but he will also be in the company of other dogs.

My daughter took it kinda hard at first that we weren’t keeping him but she’s better now. Karen will probably take the longest to get over it. Me, I don’t really know.

AFTER SAYING NO FOR SO LONG, I FINALLY GAVE IN.

We now have a dog (Bowler). But not just any dog. 

My wife and I agreed to getting a smart dog, and since her sister had a mutt pup that was mostly German Shepherd I agreed that we could bring it home.

He’s 6 months old, weighs almost 60lbs and has larger feet than his father. From what we have seen so far is that he is extremely intelligent and patient.
I’ve only heard him bark twice in the 3 days we’ve had him and he’s already house broken. He has an attachment to Karen that will require some training to alter because right now he must be next to her.

I think with his ability to learn and Karen’s training he will turn out to be a great dog.